There have been big changes around our house in the last 6 months, and I'm finally coming out of the closet. I am not a "Domestic Diva" and my home was a disaster for the first few years we were married. Drop in visits from friends would leave me profusely apologizing for the condition of my home, and I always had an excuse as to why my house was not in the best condition. I had tried Fly Lady and Motivated Moms but nothing cut it - I was a cluttered mess. Every few months I would get on a kick, and the house would look great for a couple weeks but it never lasted.
I finally came up with a plan that works for me. It's a combination of many things I have found on the net, but I tailored it to fit my personality and my needs. The system has worked out wonderfully and I want to share it with the other domestically challenged people out there.
I have two lists side-by-side on my fridge. I took two dry erase boards and split them in half. In permanent marker I wrote out a daily chore list and a weekly chore list on the first board. On the second board I have a "To Do" list and a "Buy" list.
My Daily Chores Include:
- Make the Beds
- Do a Load of Laundry (wash, dry & put away)
- Take Vitamins
- Have Quiet Time
- Circle Time/Read (Kids)
- Empty/Clean Sink (Kitchen)
- Clear Kitchen Counters (Our trouble spot - declutter & wipe down)
- Wipe Down Bathrooms (Clear Counters, Wipe Down Sink & Toilet)
- Empty Trash Cans
- Sweep & Wipe Floors (Towel tied around a squeegee through house)
- Pick Up Clutter:
- Living Room
- Play Room
- Kid's Room
- Master Bedroom
My Weekly Chores are as Follows:
- Kitchen (clean out & clean fridge, clean stove, wipe down cabinets, straighten spices/dry goods)
- Plan meals
- Clean Bathrooms
- Grocery Shop
- Dust (Includes wiping fan blades and glass globes on lights)
- Organize a Needed Area
-Indoor or Outdoor Project
- Off (Still do daily chores)
As I accomplish a task I put a dot next to the chore. Some chores, like picking up certain rooms, get done a couple times a day and I add a dot each time the chore is done. It's rewarding at the end of the day to see all I have done. This also helps me to not feel discouraged when the kiddos create a mess in a room I already cleaned because I see what I have done. Both lists take me about 1.5 hours a day to finish and I'm learning what jobs the boys can help me with.
The best reward, by far, has been being able to rest at night. I know that when I wake up in the morning last nights dinner mess won't greet me, the boys won't have an additional mess to add to, and I also love knowing that Brandon is walking into a pretty clean house. Some days I still slack, but those days are now the exception and not the norm.